Blessed… The Law of Love

“You have heard that it was said, An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth. But I say to you that you must not oppose those who want to hurt you. If people slap you on your right cheek, you must turn the left cheek to them as well. When they wish to haul you to court and take your shirt, let them have your coat too. When they force you to go one mile, go with them two. Give to those who ask, and don’t refuse those who wish to borrow from you. “You have heard that it was said, You must love your neighbor and hate your enemy. But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who harass you so that you will be acting as children of your Father who is in heaven. He makes the sun rise on both the evil and the good and sends rain on both the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love only those who love you, what reward do you have? Don’t even the tax collectors do the same? And if you greet only your brothers and sisters, what more are you doing? Don’t even the Gentiles do the same? Therefore, just as your heavenly Father is complete in showing love to everyone, so also you must be complete” (Matthew 5:38-48, Common English Bible).

A few days ago I mentioned my book, The Hard Sayings of Jesus, because I am not sure where it is I haven’t looked any of these up to see if they are actually in the book. If this one is not, it should be! We live in an “eye for an eye” society. We can hear it when we watch the evening news. When we see a report of a person who took the life of another, the victim’s family often says, “An eye for an eye.” This person took the life of my loved one, as a result, this person should lose their own life.

What many of us do not understand is, “an eye for an eye” was a legal standard that was intended to limit punishment. Here is an example. Not too many years ago, the law of the West (as in wild west) said the penalty for being a horse thief, for cattle rustling and robbery was death by hanging. Though you might agree with such a crime and punishment view of society, I think we can all agree, it goes beyond “an eye for an eye.” By an “eye for an eye,” my horse or cattle or other personal property should be taken, not my life.

And, while we are an “eye for an eye” society, at this point we stop being a Jesus society. Jesus says (and we often want to quickly read past this) forget an eye for an eye and instead, turn the other cheek. If someone wants to take your shirt, give them your coat too.

This is some pretty tough stuff. But, this is also some important stuff because what we are seeing Jesus talk about in the last half of Matthew 5 is the Law of Love. I love my wife. I love my children. I love my grandchildren. I love my parents. It isn’t always easy to love these folks. Sometimes they can really frustrate me with some of the things they say and do. I am equally sure I frustrate them in the same ways too. I can be sure of that because my kids have told me before. The same thing can be said of my friends.

I love these people because they are important to me. And, for the most part at least, they support me and want the best for me and help me try to achieve what is best. That makes them easy to love.

But, there are also some folks out there who care absolutely nothing for me. They are not worried about what is best for me, they don’t support me and if what is best for them means walking over the top of me, they won’t hesitate.

Here is the scary thing, in this lesson, Jesus is saying I am supposed to love them too! That is some hard stuff friends. I don’t know about you, but I don’t want to love the person who tries to take my favorite shirt and I sure don’t want to give them my coat!

But there is something Jesus knows far better than we. While I might bicker and argue with my friends and family, because of the love we share, all out war probably isn’t going to happen between us.

Jesus knows, if I can reach a point where I can treat my enemies with the same love I treat my family and friends, I have started to effect real change in the world. If I can respond to an enemy with love, that enemy probably will not remain an enemy for very much longer.

And remember this, no one ever said being a Christ follower was something that would be easy to do. But, what Jesus thought to be most important, along with loving God, can be summed up pretty easily, “Love Everybody.” It is easy to say. Doing it requires a great deal more effort on our part but I believe the end result is worth it.

What are you doing to demonstrate love to your enemies?

Have a blessed day in the Lord.

Joy and Peace,

Copyright 2017, J. Keith Broyles, All Rights Reserved


Spirita Spiro (Esperanza for "Spirit's Breath) is rather new in my life. But the blog is not. I began writing a blog several years ago. It lived under the title, "The Pastor Ponders." Over the years I have tried several different names and "The Pastor Ponders" always seemed to fit best. I am trying again with Spirita Spiro. For 27 years I was a full-time pastor in the United Methodist Church. This year, August 2018, I semi-retired (I can't actually retire quite yet) and began teaching social studies. It is something I have always wanted to do and if I was going to do this, I needed to make it sooner rather than later. So, I made the move. I thought with the career change there also needed to be a name change to the blog and other things, such as spiritual direction. Spirita Spiro is my attempt to share some of my thoughts. I often share what I am thinking with my dog "Bishop," but he keeps his thoughts to himself. He will even go to sleep sometimes while I am sharing my thoughts with him. The truth is, if it doesn't involve getting his ears scratched, his belly rubbed or some kind of treat, he really doesn't care. I will say this for him, he never argues with me or tells me I am wrong. So, I decided to share some of my thoughts with whoever might come across this blog in their ramblings around the Internet. I live with my wife Cindy and our little dog in Lufkin, Texas. I spent the past 27 years as a full-time United Methodist pastor. Most recently I served as pastor of First United Methodist Church in Sweeny, Texas. I have also served United Methodist congregations throughout East Texas including rural Madison County (Elwood UMC), Lovelady (First UMC) and Kennard (Center Hill UMC), Canton (First UMC), rural Smith County (Mt. Sylvan UMC and Union Chapel UMC), Grapeland (First UMC), Tyler (Pleasant Retreat UMC), Santa Fe (Aldersgate UMC), Freeport (First UMC) and Oyster Creek (Oyster Creek UMC), Diboll (First UMC), and now Sweeny (First UMC). My wife Cindy and I have been married for over 40 years. We have two grown sons. Wayne and his wife Nikki and all our grandsons (Kaleb, Noah, and Jaxon) live in Southern California. Christopher and his wife Morgan and both our granddaughters (Jenna and Natalie) live in Tyler Texas. I enjoy preaching and all aspects of preaching from research to writing to the actual preaching event. I also love writing, reading, playing the guitar as well as a bit of drawing. I have spent quite a bit of time over the past two years working with paracord on various projects, mostly prayer ropes I usually give away. I sing bass with a local barbershop chorus called The Coastalaires. I have also recently begun doing a little wood carving. I also enjoy playing with Bishop, something he likes a great deal better than listening to my thoughts. I hold an Associate of Applied Science Degree in Business Data Processing, specializing in Microcomputers from San Jacinto College in Pasadena, Texas, a Bachelor of Science in Political Science with a minor in History from Sam Houston State University in Huntsville, TX, a Master of Divinity from Southern Methodist University in Dallas, TX and a Doctor of Ministry from Carolina University of Theology. When I was a student at Carolina, the school was in Iron Station North Carolina. They have since relocated to Manassas Virginia (Yeah, go figure, a school named Carolina geographically in Virginia). This blog is mostly devotional writing, but there are other things here too. Just about every week I will either post my sermon manuscript or a video of the worship service. On occasion, I will post something I see in society. Occasionally I write a short story, a poem, or a song and will post it here too. I will say this, my motivations for writing this blog are really selfish. I write it to get what I am thinking out of my head and onto something a bit more permanent. They say, after all, once something is on the internet it never really goes away. Still, I hope you enjoy reading it. And, should you desire, you can one-up Bishop and actually tell me what you think. Who knows, it might generate a bit of discussion between you and me and anyone else who might make their way here. With Joy and Thankfulness, Keith Sweeny, Texas May 2018

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