Blessed… Where is Your Tuxedo?

Jesus responded by speaking again in parables: “The kingdom of heaven is like a king who prepared a wedding party for his son. He sent his servants to call those invited to the wedding party. But they didn’t want to come. Again he sent other servants and said to them, ‘Tell those who have been invited, “Look, the meal is all prepared. I’ve butchered the oxen and the fattened cattle. Now everything’s ready. Come to the wedding party!” ’ But they paid no attention and went away—some to their fields, others to their businesses. The rest of them grabbed his servants, abused them, and killed them. “The king was angry. He sent his soldiers to destroy those murderers and set their city on fire. Then he said to his servants, ‘The wedding party is prepared, but those who were invited weren’t worthy. Therefore, go to the roads on the edge of town and invite everyone you find to the wedding party.’ “Then those servants went to the roads and gathered everyone they found, both evil and good. The wedding party was full of guests. Now when the king came in and saw the guests, he spotted a man who wasn’t wearing wedding clothes. He said to him, ‘Friend, how did you get in here without wedding clothes?’ But he was speechless.  Then the king said to his servants, ‘Tie his hands and feet and throw him out into the farthest darkness. People there will be weeping and grinding their teeth.’ “Many people are invited, but few people are chosen” (Matthew 22:1-14, Common English Bible).

Robert Fulghum is a pastor and author. He is most famous for his book, Everything I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten, but he has written several others. In his second book, It Was On Fire When I Lay Down On It, he tells the story of the MOTB (the Mother of the Bride) which quite possibly is the funniest thing I have ever read. But, I digress. Read it for yourself sometime.

At the beginning of the story Fulghum says, “Weddings are high state occasions involving amateurs under pressure. Everything never goes right.” Most any pastor I know will tell you, Fulghum is correct.

Our lesson today is just such an occasion. As a high state occasion (and with this being the wedding of a king’s son, it really would be a high state occasion), everyone would be dressed in the best they owned. Today, if this were a formal wedding, most people would be in formal gowns or tuxedos. At the very least they would be in nice dresses and suits and ties.

The proud father, the king, looks out at the crowd and he sees someone who, not only isn’t wearing a tuxedo, he is in an old worn-out t-shirt and blue jeans with grease stains and holes in the knees. While the king really isn’t pleased with what he sees, I can’t help but think, the thought had to run through the king’s mind, “Well, I did send the servants out to invite everyone, rich and poor alike. Maybe this guy is really poor and blue jeans and a t-shirt are all he has.” So he wanders out to check the guy out. He finds the guy did have other stuff, he just didn’t care enough to change. He never took the invitation, the offer, seriously.

That is the thing for a lot of people look at what God offers, we say we want it, but then we don’t take the offer seriously. We don’t participate in the life of the Church. We don’t serve anyone but ourselves. We don’t study. We don’t pray. We aren’t wearing our wedding clothes.

So many say, “I don’t need to go to church and the church is only full of hypocrites who want my money.” They are right, the church is full of hypocrites. Another way of saying it is, the church is full of sinners who need grace.

Recently I heard it said, “You can’t say you love Jesus and not love His body, the Church.” I think that quote is spot on.

So, we need to get serious and take the invitation God has given to us and live it out in ways that communicate to God we are wearing our wedding garment. In other words, we need to take God’s invitation seriously.

Friends, I for one do not want to be caught not wearing my tuxedo. How about you?

What do your wedding clothes look like?

Have a blessed day in the Lord.

Joy and Thankfulness,

Copyright 2017, J. Keith Broyles, All Rights Reserved


Spirita Spiro (Esperanza for "Spirit's Breath) is rather new in my life. But the blog is not. I began writing a blog several years ago. It lived under the title, "The Pastor Ponders." Over the years I have tried several different names and "The Pastor Ponders" always seemed to fit best. I am trying again with Spirita Spiro. For 27 years I was a full-time pastor in the United Methodist Church. This year, August 2018, I semi-retired (I can't actually retire quite yet) and began teaching social studies. It is something I have always wanted to do and if I was going to do this, I needed to make it sooner rather than later. So, I made the move. I thought with the career change there also needed to be a name change to the blog and other things, such as spiritual direction. Spirita Spiro is my attempt to share some of my thoughts. I often share what I am thinking with my dog "Bishop," but he keeps his thoughts to himself. He will even go to sleep sometimes while I am sharing my thoughts with him. The truth is, if it doesn't involve getting his ears scratched, his belly rubbed or some kind of treat, he really doesn't care. I will say this for him, he never argues with me or tells me I am wrong. So, I decided to share some of my thoughts with whoever might come across this blog in their ramblings around the Internet. I live with my wife Cindy and our little dog in Lufkin, Texas. I spent the past 27 years as a full-time United Methodist pastor. Most recently I served as pastor of First United Methodist Church in Sweeny, Texas. I have also served United Methodist congregations throughout East Texas including rural Madison County (Elwood UMC), Lovelady (First UMC) and Kennard (Center Hill UMC), Canton (First UMC), rural Smith County (Mt. Sylvan UMC and Union Chapel UMC), Grapeland (First UMC), Tyler (Pleasant Retreat UMC), Santa Fe (Aldersgate UMC), Freeport (First UMC) and Oyster Creek (Oyster Creek UMC), Diboll (First UMC), and now Sweeny (First UMC). My wife Cindy and I have been married for over 40 years. We have two grown sons. Wayne and his wife Nikki and all our grandsons (Kaleb, Noah, and Jaxon) live in Southern California. Christopher and his wife Morgan and both our granddaughters (Jenna and Natalie) live in Tyler Texas. I enjoy preaching and all aspects of preaching from research to writing to the actual preaching event. I also love writing, reading, playing the guitar as well as a bit of drawing. I have spent quite a bit of time over the past two years working with paracord on various projects, mostly prayer ropes I usually give away. I sing bass with a local barbershop chorus called The Coastalaires. I have also recently begun doing a little wood carving. I also enjoy playing with Bishop, something he likes a great deal better than listening to my thoughts. I hold an Associate of Applied Science Degree in Business Data Processing, specializing in Microcomputers from San Jacinto College in Pasadena, Texas, a Bachelor of Science in Political Science with a minor in History from Sam Houston State University in Huntsville, TX, a Master of Divinity from Southern Methodist University in Dallas, TX and a Doctor of Ministry from Carolina University of Theology. When I was a student at Carolina, the school was in Iron Station North Carolina. They have since relocated to Manassas Virginia (Yeah, go figure, a school named Carolina geographically in Virginia). This blog is mostly devotional writing, but there are other things here too. Just about every week I will either post my sermon manuscript or a video of the worship service. On occasion, I will post something I see in society. Occasionally I write a short story, a poem, or a song and will post it here too. I will say this, my motivations for writing this blog are really selfish. I write it to get what I am thinking out of my head and onto something a bit more permanent. They say, after all, once something is on the internet it never really goes away. Still, I hope you enjoy reading it. And, should you desire, you can one-up Bishop and actually tell me what you think. Who knows, it might generate a bit of discussion between you and me and anyone else who might make their way here. With Joy and Thankfulness, Keith Sweeny, Texas May 2018

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