10 Isn’t there one father for all of us,
one God who created us?
Why does everyone cheat each other to make the covenant of our ancestors impure?
11 Judah cheated—
a detestable thing was done in Israel and Jerusalem.
Judah made the Lord’s holy place impure, which God loved,
and married the daughter of a foreign god.
12 May the Lord eliminate anyone who does so from the tents of Jacob,
anyone awaking, testifying,
and making an offering to the Lord of heavenly forces.
13 You should do this as well:
cover the altar of the Lord with tears, weeping, and groaning
because there is still no divine favor for your offering or favorable regard
for anything from your hand.
14 But you say, “Why?”
Because the Lord testifies about you
and the wife of your youth against whom you cheated.
She is your partner,
the wife of your covenant.
15 Didn’t he make her the one
and the remnant of his spirit? What is the one?
The one seeking godly offspring.
You should guard your own spirit.
Don’t cheat on the wife of your youth
16 because he hates divorce,
says the Lord God of Israel,
and he also hates the one covering his garment with violence,
says the Lord of heavenly forces.
Guard your own life, and don’t cheat (Malachi 2:10-16, Common English Bible).
Several years ago, probably not too many years after Google became an available web search engine, a friend told me, “If you want a surprise Google yourself.” I didn’t think I would actually see something that would surprise me. I was wrong. What I found was not what my friend thought would surprise me. I am not sure what he thought I would find but it wasn’t there.
At that time I had a personal website where I would post manuscript versions of my sermons for family and friends to read. I would guess at that point I had about 40 sermons on my site. I didn’t think they were anything spectacular, but some of my favorites were there.
That my website showed up on the Google search wasn’t surprising either. I would have been more surprised had it not been there.
What did surprise me was that two of my sermons showed up on another website. It was a website where preachers could go and buy a sermon someone else had written. My permission had not been asked about including any of my sermons. If it had been a website that didn’t charge for the sermons I probably wouldn’t have been upset. That wasn’t the case. The owner of the website was potentially making money from my sermons. In other words, he was cheating me.
I confronted him via email (I wouldn’t know the guy if he knocked on my door). He replied back saying he didn’t have any of my sermons that all he had on his site were his sermons. I went back and checked and he had taken my sermons down. And still, I saw sermons not written by him.
All this is to say, I was being cheated, and I didn’t like it. Who does like it. When someone cheats us, it is no fun and we usually resent it. I know I did that day.
Malachi, in our lesson today, talks about cheating. As I read this passage I can’t help but think the first half addresses cheating in general but in the second half, he specifically addresses cheating on one’s spouse.
The short answer to both is, don’t do it because God doesn’t like it. For so many, cheating is a way of life. No, it would be better to say, dishonesty is a way of life.
When I was in the Navy, it was generally considered that a thief was the lowest life form on the planet. Why a thief? If you would steal from your shipmate, you would lie to or about your shipmate. If you can’t trust someone with something like honesty, you can’t trust them with your life either.
I would actually expand on that, if you lie to someone, you would steal from them. And, if you can’t trust them with being honest, you can’t trust them with anything.
Further, if someone can’t trust his/her spouse to be faithful, they can’t trust them at all.
In my research for today’s blog I ran across a very short poem I want to leave you with today. I think it sums things up pretty well.
Don’t Make Promises
You can’t Keep.
Have a blessed day in the Lord.
With Joy and Thankfulness,
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