2 If then there is any encouragement in Christ, any consolation from love, any sharing in the Spirit, any compassion and sympathy, 2 make my joy complete: be of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind. 3 Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility regard others as better than yourselves. 4 Let each of you look not to your own interests, but to the interests of others. 5 Let the same mind be in you that was in Christ Jesus (Philippians 2:1-5, New Revised Standard Version)…
Basketball Hall-of-Famer, Kareem Abdul-Jabbar has spoken many times of his college coach, John Wooden. Jabbar remembered of Wooden he never left the locker room a mess. Wooden stayed and picked up trash. Jabbar said, “Some thought it funny seeing the winning-est coach in basketball picking up trash from the wet floor, especially after a road victory. I found it moving, not just because he was conscientious enough to leave the room as clean as we’d found it, but because he didn’t think it beneath him to do it himself.”
My two favorite leadership authors Simon Sinek, author of Start with Why, Leaders Eat Last, The Infinite Game, and recently released Find Your Why. The second author is John Maxwell, author of Failing Forward, Intentional Living, and The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership. There are many more. I’m not sure if Maxwell knows how many he’s written.
In both Start with Why and Leaders Eat Last, Sinek tells of a Marine Corp tradition. The higher your rank, the later you eat. The lowest private eats first. The highest ranking officer eats last. The example shows importance to every member of the team. The lowest member knows the highest member sees value in the team. The example shines for all to see.
In The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership, rule 13 is, “The Law of the Picture,” defined as, “people do what they see.” Fred Rogers was a master at setting an example, people could do what they saw. He knew what was right and lived it. The episode he had a refreshing dip of the feet in a child’s pool. When the postman, an African-American, comes by, Mr. Rogers invites him to join in. It was shocking, unheard of, at the time. He left the audience knowing that, regardless of who it was, nothing would have been different. He gave the children permission to do what they saw.
Paul understood too. “Put others ahead of yourself.” I \hear him saying, “Be a leader, eat last.” He encourages readers to be of one mind with Jesus. And, Jesus said, he didn’t come to be served but to serve.
Over the course of my career I have learned leadership a little at a time. I doubt I will learn the lesson as well as Russell. Russell was a youth in a church I served. He was a great kid.
The youth had a pancake breakfast one day. Russell was making pancakes. He was so proud of his pancakes. You would be hard-pressed to find someone more proud of his pancakes than Russell.
If you asked about a career he said he was going be a farmer like his Dad.
Russell was also a leader at school. Though he played a position lacking glamour, Russell was a captain on the football team. He had the respect of the players around him. They wanted to play with Russell.
One October afternoon the sky started getting cloudy. The rain started. Lightening filled the sky. Coach called the players into the locker room. Russell helped some of his teammates. When he was running toward the locker room lightening struck and killed Russell.
Every player had a story to tell, what Russell did for them. I think Russell understood that leaders eat last.
Our time has too many leaders not eating last. They fail to set an example, making their leadership questionable at best. Perhaps they don’t understand or they don’t care that people do what the see. It impacts society, on a variety of level. We do what we see and have disregard for the well-being of others. We have forgotten, never knew, or don’t care to put others ahead of ourselves.
We are better than that. We need to give love and compassion. Until we can rediscover love and compassion we will never be all we can be or all God calls us to be.
Seeking the Genuine,
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